Pay Attention

Pay attention.
Gentlemen, pay attention to your woman.
Once you loose that connection with her, you loose her as a whole.

She will realize that she is not your priority.
Whether it was to talk about her day, some minor thing that made her happy, or even seeing a cute dress in a window.
Once she knows that you don't pay attention, she knows you stopped caring 100%.
Yeah, you might say you care, but when you say it, it means less and less to her.

You might not know all the favors, all the times she listened, or the times where she cared about you with all her heart.
Heck you don't even know she is hurting because you're not paying close attention.

Don't do this men. Your woman will be no more.
She might not leave right away, but she will become distant.
She might isolate herself.
She might text, message, or talk to you less.
She might not message you at all.
She might just stop to have hope that you will talk first.


Now, I'm not an expert, but I am going through things like this.

I made the choice to get with a man that is very independent.
That's very distracted easily.
That's very bored easily.
And mainly, doesn't talk a lot about his day to day life.
Why?
Ask him.



(This was kinda inspired by the song "Art of Letting You Go" by Tori Kelly)

Peace and Love guys